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 Post subject: How to Recognize Your Soul Mate when You Meet
PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2007 11:59 pm 
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How to Recognize Your Soul Mate when You Meet


The Facts and Fictions about Soul Mates


We all have a soul mate- the one person whom we are most compatible with and who we were destined to spend our lives with. It sounds simple- destiny has already worked it out for us, so it should be easy to know who our soul mate is, right? Not Necessarily.
There are many mixed signs and signals out there and most of these mixed signals are ones you create yourself. So many people are in relationships that deep they are not fulfilling them, but due to attached feelings they have developed for their partner, they turn a blind eye to the signs that their partner is not their soul mate. We all are so in love with the thought of true love, that we often want to take matters into our own hands, believing that we turn our relationship into the relationship we want it to be, when this is not so. Many people also want to believe that they have the power to change their partner if they just hang in long enough and have the patience- but this too is not so.

If you are serious about finding your soul mate, then you need to be willing to face the painful truths and put them behind you. You have to be willing to feel the pain of your unfulfilling relationship and have the strength to walk away, so that you can find your way back to your path and continue to take the steps that will lead you to your soul mate.

Setting Yourself up for Success

You and your soul mate will not just blindly find your way to each other. Yes, destiny set you up, but you also need to take charge and help your destiny out. Before you are able to meet and recognize your soul mate, you must first ask yourself what you personally believe a soul mate means. What do the words


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I think we have debated about this subject as well in another topic.
Its a very nice thought isnt it that there is someone out there for us all.
Someone who is our soul Mate. Personally I dont believe it. I agree with some of the parts though. When we do meet someone and we really like them and then after some time feel we are falling in Love with them we do believe they are our soul mate. I believe you can meet someone and fall in Love, get married, have children and have a happy Fulfulling life but that does not mean you are married to your soul mate, It means you are married to someone you love and feel happy with and want to spend your lives together and bring up children together. People change with time take some people who have kids then they become dead beat dads or they just take off and leave. At a certain point in your life the person you are with could be the most loving, caring person ever but people do change and circumstances change. Look at people who have kids and have been married for years then just one day they just dont feel the same. This happens. You have one life be with someone you love and live but soul mates nah i dont buy it.


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has anyone found their soulmate?

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I'm not sure about soul mates, but when I met Carl, after a few weeks I felt as if I could trust him enough to tell him all about past events in my life. With other relationships I never felt as though I could trust them enough to tell them.

It was when I realised I could trust Carl that I finally opened up and all the stuff that I had kept hidden from everyone came out and I was able to come to terms with them.

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thats nice to hear sharon.................I do believe in soul-mates, i really do think that special person is out there for all of us, but all we have to do is find them if we're lucky enough to, or brave enough to.......... :wink:


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You trying to turn NGI into a dating agencey Sue?

"How to find your sould mate .. "

What next?

"101 ways to please your lover in bed"?

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LOL No jay I know more than that! lol


I put the soul-mate bit on as there was some convo about soul mates some where on forum -- thought id make it its own little area :wink:


Anyway Jay -- ur thoughts?? on soul mates?


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The human body is energy and that energy vibrates at a particular frequency. When you meet somebody for the first time, its entirely possible that the frequency that your energy field is vibrating at matches that other persons and a 'connection' is made.

Of course, the opposite is also true and you can take an immediate dislike to somebody .. and what do we say when we meet someone we don't particularly resonate with?

"I get bad vibes from him/her" .. vibes = vibrations. We unconsciously are aware of energy vibrations yet its so easy in this 21st sceptical century for us to dismiss it. We all KNOW this shit - we just have to remember it.

From a psychological perspective, its entirely possible that 2 people can meet and have an instant rapport with each other - their two unconscious minds being in synch with each other (oh oh .. synch = frequency resonance).

Rapport from a psychological perspective are two minds sending out the correct signals in unison to each other on an unconscious level that "you can trust me, relax, be safe .."

Consciously we're not aware of the signals but we are all constantly broadcasting them - sometimes they appear within our body language, sometimes its in the tone of our voice or the rate of our breathing or the words that we say. Yet our unconscious mind 'sees' everything and flicks the required switches in response to all the stimuli.

Nothing hocus pocus about 'soul mates' really - all we need to do is to remember who and what we are and it explains a lot of things.

Take whichever view of the above you wish .. energy vibration or rapport - it doesn't matter - they are both the same thing really.

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what do u mean the human aura Jay?


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Nah .. the Aura is just what enamates from us .. I'm talking at the very core of who and what we are .. everything is energy vibrating .. right down to the nucleas of the cells that make up your body - and then way beyond. At the very smallest level - the Quantum level - all matter is made of vibrating energy strands that have no real physicality to them in the every day sense .. I'm talking that energy.

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Well i think everyone has one person who's right for them and i hope i'm lucky enough to meet mine one day...i don't need to know the why's and what for's, takes the magic out of it :oops: .....getting ready for everyone to take the p**s now! lol


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No Beth -- I wouldnt totally agree with u - and hey I hope u do find ur soulmate :wink:


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I agree with Jay...lol
You can meet someone and get to know them and feel you can trust them but this isnt just for partners its the same for friends as well. You have friends but maybe only tell 1 or 2 of them personal stuff about you as you trust them more than other friends and maybe know if you tell some other people then they will tell someone else and so on. Also as jay touched on you can meet someone and fancy them or whatever..lol but it dont mean they are your soul mate maybe you just want a bit of them..lol :twisted: After all its only natural and some go with their instincts. You have a circle of friends you get along with some more than others, maybe certain people have personality clashes or just dont see eye to eye. Like Sharon said about Carl which is well sweet by the way :) you meet someone and feel in a short time you can tell them anything about your past and you know they wont judge you or make you feel bad about anything. Some find this in someone else not always their partner could be a female friend or even a male friend. Its nice though i guess to believe in soul mates and that as long as everyone is happy thats the main thing i guess.


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i believe that for everybody there is a somebody out there, sometimes they are right in front of you and you never notice, sometimes it takes years to find them, but when you find them everything feels complete...

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Andrea wrote:
I agree with Jay...lol


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lol i'm getting worried about andrea she is starting to agree with people lol

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lol @ Jay's Picture and lol @ kris

Well its me trying to be a little more open minded and a mean a little bit. :) I have posted a topic on NGI chat only about the topic in more detail go take a look.


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congrats for trying to be a little more open minded i will do my best to listen more to you then..... sorry what was that i fell asleep andrea lol...only joking mate :wink:

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Andrea wrote:
Well its me trying to be a little more open minded and a mean a little bit. :)


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so anyway back to the subjecy has anyone ever met their soul mate?

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no so i could'nt help with this subject sorry


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interesting question kris.....


aww sorry to hear that phantom.... fingers crossed..........


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Think its a bit late for me lol but hope you find yours


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lol well have you sue? :lol:

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