hi there bluebird

right,just rad your mail been to whitby,,, weird,,what i did was to sit somewhere peaceful, relaxed and at ease with everything around,light 5 white candles, and concentrate on the light of them surrounding you and all of your being, there will be someone that you will see a image of , theywill be right at the forsight of your mind,imagine that person next to you and you are having a conversation with them,, that is one of your spirit guides you really can here them call there name to you, keep asking if there is anymore with them yu will get a answer fron him or her, you can then begin to ask all the questions yu want, and they will always tell the truth,, try to do it when the moon is full, knock the light off in the romm that yu are in , and be guided by the moon and candlelight, your answers will come true,, or and by the way

i do thinkyu have 2 yyour friend pam